Falling for my bf..wwhile falling out of love with a guy who ive never actually dated!?!?!?!?

You don't make them go away lol. You can deny your feelings for someone all you want, but you can't actually stop them. I would say to talk with both your boyfriend and this other guy and find out which one is right for you. If it still happens to be your boyfriend in time your feelings for the other guy will either fade a bit or you will grow to love him as just a friend, albeit a very close friend.