Trying to figure things out?

Girls hate the 'call her bluff' thing, all they think is that you are not that into them. If you truly love her, you will tell her you will work hard to make her happy and you don't want to be without her. What have you got to lose anyway? You continue on the way you are, you are at big risk of losing her even though that may not be what either of you want. Don't play games, do what your heart wants.